One of the biggest mistakes in your life would be marrying a person who doesn’t value you and doesn’t respect you or the things you stand for.
Marrying someone is a very serious decision and that is why it is OK to reevaluate your decision over and over again until you are very certain about that person.
This article will help you with that and show you which are the things you should be careful about when you are considering to marry someone.
1. He has a narrow way of thinking.
This is just not the guy you want to spend your life with because he does not possess a broad perspective of thinking and they tend to be very negative people.
2. A person who does not care much for animals.
They will definitely make you choose between them and a pet. A person who doesn’t like animals is someone who you shouldn’t want to spend your life with.
3. A person who is not willing to do some compromises.
Every healthy relationship requires compromises by both partners. You respect his wishes as he respects yours and the two of you should find a common ground that works for both of you. If he doesn’t want to do that, then you don’t need him in your life.
4. He is not able to keep his promises.
It is OK if sometimes a person forgets to keep a promise, but if he is doing it over and over again it means that he is being deceitful. You simply cannot keep trusting this kind of person.
5. He makes it clear that you are less significant than he is.
The respect you give should equal the respect you receive. The feeling of being loved less will hurt your relationship and it will eventually lead to the breakup.
6. Self-doubt is something he does not have at all.
A person who never doubts himself is not a person you want to be around, he will always think that others are wrong and that he is always right. I bet you don’t want someone like that to be your husband.
7. Someone who always has an excuse for their bad behavior.
This can only mean that he would rather do other things than to be with you and you are not his priority.
8. He is not willing to stop whenever you start fighting.
There is no relationship that is immune to fighting. The thing is that if that relationship is healthy both of the partners will find a solution and they will respect each other’s arguments, instead of fighting endlessly.